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Wednesday, May 17, 2017

Relationship Reflection

There are many relationships that I have encountered in my life and they all have been for the betterment of myself. As the saying goes everyone comes in your life for a season, and the ones who mean the most seasons last a lifetime. Relationships are important to me because everyone needs someone in their life who they can strongly depend on and to help them develop both spiritually, mentally, socially/emotionally, physically, and financially. Relationships also help to keep you focused and grounded when you don't know what else to do, and this is why I value relationships so much.



The above people from left to right are my family and I, my cousin LaKisha, and my mom and daughter. These are just to name a few people that I have very close relationships with and I value them very much. Not pictured is my best friend Lydia and of GOD! These are just to name a few other relationships that I value very much and hold dear to my heart, as well as my church family. All the relationships previously named are positive because they build me up when needed, and when wrong the chatise me and lead in the direction in which I need to be. They do not mind telling it as it is, and this is what I value the most. Although it hurts, but it is worth it because it make me a better wife, mother, daughter cousin, and friend.

Special characteristics in these relationships that eventually led to partnerships was that I was looking for people who were fun, loving, caring, and did not mind telling it like it is. My mom and my cousin are family so I was born into that partnership. Some people are not blessed to have such relationships with their mom, and I do it admit it does get hard, especially when their right and you know their right, but you hate to admit, but in the end it is all love and she just want what is best for her one and only. Me and my cousin LaKisha have the next best relationship, besides my husband of course. We are twin cousins who are born on the same day 5 hours apart. She does not sugarcoat anything and this is what I love about her. My husband triumphs all because he has the words for every thing. When I'm down, he knows how to bring me up, and when things are going good we rejoice together. He does all he can for the family and I, and this is why I love him so much. The best relationship of all, and the one that means the ultimate most is the one that I have with God. He always comes through. He has lessons for everything in life. He understands all, and knows exactly what to do, when to do it, and how it should be done. He is the ultimate relationship and partnership that I value the most.


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